Well it has been 5 months in Arizona and I love it.  I am feeling real good about Chris and I and it seems to be getting better all the time.  However, Ian will be leaving to live in Portland and I will miss him a lot.  I wish he wasn’t going but he needs to have his own adventures in his  life.  His mom seems alright about it but I believe she is sad and not trying to let him know how much she will miss him.  I know I will!!!  I really missed my family this past Memorial Day weekend.  It reminded me of past Race weekends and I missed all of them.  However it was this weekend last year that Ken and I finally broke up and I was devistated and Felt like shit until I met Chris in December.  I have forgiven Ken and I really like him now.  But when I think of May to July 2009…He becomes that Fucking Asshole all over.  But I AM over it and I do …like I said… really like him a lot now.  And I do believe I know what true love is now.  I feel so different about Chris than I did about Ken.  He is, at times, a little work… but so worth it!!!