As the last few weeks have unfolded I have dated a lot and found ONE person that I would like to continue to date…  Not a relationship.. but just date..   I went to Visit Glen last week and he opened my eyes a little and made me realize.. I need to be alone for a while.   He is a little TOO alone but that is his choice.  He was fun.  We went to Magic Mountain and had a riot.  We  just hung out the other days and talked and laughed quite a lot.  I miss him.  He is a hard person but a good friend!!  I had dinner with Chris last night and as much as I like him.. I think he was such an asshole the last few months we dated.  I am now starting to believe he will be a great friend… But as a boyfriend… I seemed to have dodged a real Bullitt there..  I do love him now in a different way.  But god… he was SO not for me.. I need to start thinking that I am the real catch in any relationship and I need to decide what I do and do not want in a relationship.  I believe I am doing that now.  I tend to piss guys off after a date and tell them that I just don’t feel it.  After all… I am ME!!!  Guys have always liked me.  But I need to like them and make sure they have what I want.  Not what they do or what they do for a living or what they have or what they can do for me!!!  CLARITY IN THAT AREA HAS COME TO ME….FINALLY!!!